Help Recover Saintly Paul from the Cycle of Abuse

Help Recover Saintly Paul from the Cycle of Abuse

From Paul Sutherland

Initially, to recover from 10 years of devastating homophobic abuse, started by my in laws in order to get rid of me and gain illegal financial control over my inheritance.

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My family-in -law and sister, have recently shown their hidden reason for creating false doubt about my mental capacities.  These lies of convenience were tied to their long term desire to move my inheritance into their control.  The complete violation of standard terms of care as delineated by the law indicate total corruption, as I was left homeless with Hepatitis, a clear case of negligent homicide.

I was assured by the Miami Bar Association that my sister and mother, (now deceased) are fully responsible for the damages I have endured.  After detailing these truths to my sister and family, they remained unresponsive except for further hostility.  People trapped in lies are too dangerous and unaccountable to be around, but when they have slandered you to all your friends, you end up with nothing.

Without my inheritance,  I have no money to hire a lawyer to represent me if I even wanted to sue her.   There are no social service protecting anyone from such manipulations.  The damages from complete betrayal are so severe that they became the dominating force in my life.  I lost everything to the greedy manipulations of people reeking of stupor.  These imposed losses included my marriage to my fiancé, a man of very high virtue, like me.  He fell prey to lies faster than anyone I have ever seen, and became borderline and very dangerous because the lies disrupted his ability to think or act rightfully.

The contrast between his unwaveringly honest and ethical partner (me) asking him to carefully think things through  and the falsehoods introduced by scapegoating imbeciles were too great.  He had been conned into predetermining that I was the problem, without ever fully considering what happened to us both.

His melt down threw us both onto the street, and he discarded me, by following suit and blaming me for the distress of others who were jealous of us together.  All of the people he knew mutually were mislead by him taking the lead to become violent, dictatorial and adversarial to the man he formerly loved and respected.  Truly, dis-ease is a disease.

The spiritual axiom known throughout enlightened circles is that anything bothering you about someone else is something about yourself that you have not addressed properly.  My sister's lie has followed me everywhere, and resulted in endless attacks, abuse, disrespect, and hostility being heaped on me by people of low morality and bearing.

Most people abused are highly ethical, and unsuspecting that they would be targeted for abuse and extortion.  We were a superlative couple, with more love between us than in any of the other relationships of the people responding with aggressive ire towards us.

My mother, who was easily alienated from me by my sister misleading her, called me a few months ago out of the blue.  She was too upset to think or reason, and the pain in her voice was excruciating.  It came from an extortion attempt by my sister and her lawyers.  What was being asked of her made no sense whatsoever under any circumstances, and was directly against her previously stated will and that of my father as well.  My sister and the in-laws were trying to bully my mother into submission, and test the boundaries of what they could get away with this time.

My mother insured me that she would not change the will, nor would she sign the document mailed to her house.  Her ability to communicate clearly was being destroyed by the repeated introduction of these illegal and unethical wants benefitting only one side of my mother's family, not both.  My level of representation was being erased so that my sister's family could take my place.  

I asked her to send me a copy of anything that she did sign, and she said she would.  My mother was suffering from dementia, which was obviously being worsened by the untrustworthy people surrounding her escalating it in order to destabilize her ass far as possible, and manipulate her into releasing her money to them.

Now, it seems as though my sister has falsified the documents and submitted them through a "law" firm, just like she falsified legal documents in order to discredit me years ago. By testing the boundaries of what she can get away with, she is clearly indicating her criminal nature has triumphed over her common sense.

Her new family has a background in estate management, so they certainly know how to mismanage one to their advantage as well.  There is no innocence in their actions, only violent abuse, and estate theft.  There is only innocence in my actions, as I wrote my mother and sister repeatedly with detailed, well researched up to date explanations of what they had done.

My sister has made no effort to understand.  I have written over half a million words over the course of several years trying to regain these spoiled relationships.  No one has seen fit to return, due to their refusal to apologize protecting them from the results of the moral inventory I took being so unavoidable.  By not taking it to heart, they have become petrified of being found out, and completely inhumane.

Premeditated antagonism was my mother's style of abuse, now being continuously wielded by my sister, and her family, against the only person around without the need to repeatedly abuse.  The evolved gay brother, the first born son in the family whose estate is being stolen.

My sister was abused by my mother and she abused her back, at my expense as well as that of my mother.  I never abused either of them, and am only guilty of trusting people who corrupted while under the influence of others.  That is not a reason to strip me of my inheritance, or attempt to do so.  My sister and her family are criminals.

Clearly, the lawyers my sister is using are a firm that helps the wealthy bilk the virtuous through defamation campaigns and financial manipulation.   Their meddling is designed to switch the money into prepossession of an entirely different family than the one that stands to inherit according to the original will.  Taking this money under their control prior to probate is brazen theft, and I have no idea what to do about it.

WHY THIS IS AN LBGT ISSUE.  WHY THIS IS ALSO A SENIOR ABUSE ISSUE:

These crimes are disproportionately aimed at gay, elder men and women far more often than any other demographic, and are hate crimes.  This is a hideous form of homophobia where the gay person is devalued in the face of heteronormative prejudice, that creates a delusional and indulgent selfishness, an inflated sense of entitlement that masquerades as earned privilege, that is actually domestic terrorism - pernicious abuse.

Abuse this severe is rather difficult to classify as merely post traumatic stress, and is becoming known as the public health crisis of our time.  Once abused, the wound is easily detected by other abusers, who will repeat similar abuse as a matter of course.

For most, you lose your friends to their own refusal to do the intricate thinking necessary to see that you have been brutally attacked in a hit and run.  It upsets people's misattributions that they have made in order to be comfortable in the face of unsolved violence issues being expressed constantly all around us.

Pernicious abuse is designed to leave you dead to the world while others divide up your fame and fortune through conceitedness and defamation of you.

REQUEST FOR HELP

This request is a base level fundraiser to help me to regain permanently what I lost.  The losses include my wealth, health, physique, sense of well-being, my fiancé, and various other forms of earned and accrued true value, such as my bank account, personal belongings, and reputation.

I am in desperate need for help in paying for my storage facility, my gym membership (where I bathe, shave, and dye my hair), and important maintenance expenses such as laundry, hair dye, and sunscreen.  Ideally, I want to go back into Bikram yoga as well, to revive my fitness fully to its former levels.

Staying immaculate is imperative, as it reminds people that you have not lost value due to circumstance, and your principles are clearly still intact.  It also helps deflect the hostile prejudice most people indulge in when perceiving your plight only as an opportunity to be abusive, or give you self-serving lip service and no actual assistance. Abuse piggy backs on those scapegoated, and it is an abysmal sign of low functioning minds being very pervasive in their piggy boorishness.

Your donation here goes directly to living expenses, which in my case do not include cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, or anything unhealthy.  I am working hard to recoup my full levels of fitness, and improve them.  I also want to recover my lost productivity, and my marriage plans.  Also, I need to recover my affordable housing that I was illegally forced from due to homophobia.  This can easily involve relocating to a more affordable area, as detailed in my giving levels.

MY SUBSEQUENT PROGRAMS FOR FUNDING

Once stabile, I will continue the introduction for funding of the proprietary social recovery programs I developed after being exposed to this atrocious behavior.  I have always had a knack for problem solving.  I was part of Act Up NY early on, where we created a social change organization under severe duress that was fully successful.  I have now done something similar for all abuse, and expanded the idea of activism from gay and lesbian to all humans in our great family.  I have a very exceptional education, and coming from several pertinent angles at once, I have a proprietary solution set that is a uniform victory overall, and developing and deploying the programs and methodologies to fulfill them is my life's work.  Fundraisers for these will follow just as soon as I can get fully settled, and regain my stature.  Introducing ideas this important requires it, and I do not compromise, especially with intellectual collateral that can help us all so much.  Thank you for your support.

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